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Tuesday
8
September
Visitation
4:00 pm - 8:00 pm
Tuesday, September 8, 2026
Leber-Lakeside Funeral Home
150 Landing Road
Landing, New Jersey, United States
Wednesday
9
September
Mass
10:00 am
Wednesday, September 9, 2026
St. Therese Church
151 Main Street
Succasunna, New Jersey, United States
Wednesday
9
September
Final Resting Place
11:30 am
Wednesday, September 9, 2026
Stanhope Union Cemetery
1 Continental Drive
Netcong, New Jersey, United States
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The Satin Family planted 3 trees in memory of Raymond Benemerito
Wednesday, September 2, 2026
3 trees were planted in memory of
Raymond Aguilar Benemerito
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Kathy, Mark, and family: our heartfelt condolences to you all. We remember Ray as a generous friend, always looking out for our son as one of his own.
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The Orlandos planted 3 trees in memory of Raymond Benemerito
Wednesday, September 2, 2026
3 trees were planted in memory of
Raymond Aguilar Benemerito
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Ray was truly an amazing man and we were lucky to call him a friend. His loss is profound and may his memory live on.
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Maryann Panei planted 5 trees in memory of Raymond Benemerito
Wednesday, September 2, 2026
5 trees were planted in memory of
Raymond Aguilar Benemerito
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Ray was such a postive force and knew how to enjoy life. You will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with Kathy, Mel, Mark, Matt and family.
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Lisa & Angelo Sansano and Family. planted 3 trees in memory of Raymond Benemerito
Wednesday, September 2, 2026
3 trees were planted in memory of
Raymond Aguilar Benemerito
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My childhood friend, gone far too soon. You will be deeply missed. Kathy and the whole Benemerito family, our hearts and prayers are with you.
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Ken & Cindy Heaton planted 5 trees in memory of Raymond Benemerito
Wednesday, September 2, 2026
5 trees were planted in memory of
Raymond Aguilar Benemerito
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We will miss your smiling face and anything goes attitude at the Club. Prayers for Kathy and the family. We'll never forget the goldfish incident.
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Frank and Melani Marasco & family planted 5 trees in memory of Raymond Benemerito
Wednesday, September 2, 2026
5 trees were planted in memory of
Raymond Aguilar Benemerito
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We are so sorry for your loss our thoughts and prayers and with you and the family
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Anonymous planted 3 trees in memory of Raymond Benemerito
Tuesday, September 1, 2026
3 trees were planted in memory of
Raymond Aguilar Benemerito
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Noah M planted 3 trees in memory of Raymond Benemerito
Tuesday, September 1, 2026
3 trees were planted in memory of
Raymond Aguilar Benemerito
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You were a one of a kind man who will never be forgotten by anyone fortunate enough to have met you. Rest easy Ray!
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Lynn, Mike, Katelyn, Adam, Olivia and Ella Schweitzer planted 3 trees in memory of Raymond Benemerito
Tuesday, September 1, 2026
3 trees were planted in memory of
Raymond Aguilar Benemerito
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You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
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Dawn and Brad Olson planted 3 trees in memory of Raymond Benemerito
Tuesday, September 1, 2026
3 trees were planted in memory of
Raymond Aguilar Benemerito
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Kathy, Matthew, Melanie and Mark- praying that the hole left in your heart be filled with loving memories, smiles and sighs. Love to you all!
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John McDermott planted 5 trees in memory of Raymond Benemerito
Tuesday, September 1, 2026
5 trees were planted in memory of
Raymond Aguilar Benemerito
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May flocks of angels guide him to eternal peace. My sincere condolences to the Benemerito family.
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Anonymous planted 3 trees in memory of Raymond Benemerito
Tuesday, September 1, 2026
3 trees were planted in memory of
Raymond Aguilar Benemerito
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Elizabeth Majkowski uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, September 9, 2026
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We will miss Ray’s smile and positive outlook and glad we were able to get together with Ray and Kathleen on their trips to Napa Valley including this past May.
Thank you for always being able to make me laugh when we worked together at SLG.
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Maria posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 8, 2026
I’m so sorry for your loss. I met Ray at my first powerlifting nationals in 1993. He was kind and friendly. I remember a trip to Columbus Ohio where he competed in Filipino stick fighting at the Arnold classic. Lots of great memories
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Ronald Isom posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 8, 2026
My condolences to the Benemerito family for your loss.. I remember when I first met ray he was the building manager at 1515 broadway I was a new member of the engineering team and a little nervous at the sheer size of the building but ray put my mind at ease and made me feel confident that I would be ok ..
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Rhonda Jensen lit a candle
Tuesday, September 8, 2026
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Spending time with Ray felt like a boost of positive energy.
He was a bright star. He will be greatly missed by all who knew him.
Sending love and condolences to his family and many friends.
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Joseph Mannion posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 8, 2026
I'm sorry for your loss. Raymond was always a gentleman and a down to earth nice guy. It was a pleasure having him as a co worker. Joseph Mannion
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Greg Warr posted a condolence
Monday, September 7, 2026
Ray was such a great guy. He always had a smile on his face and no matter what happened, he would always laugh it off, no matter how bad it was. His work ethic was beyond reproach. He’ll truly be missed. Our hearts go out to Kathy, James and his entire family. Love, the Warr Family. Greg, Liliana, Sara and Fio.
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Donald posted a condolence
Monday, September 7, 2026
My deepest condolences. I’m so sorry to hear. I met Ray during our Filipino martial arts training back in early 1990’s. Such a great person. Keeping you all in my prayers.
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The Capital Grille MetLife. Jill Dickstein posted a condolence
Monday, September 7, 2026
The Capital Grille family is so sorry to hear of Ray’s passing. He was a guest and a friend for many years. He will be missed, and I will still look for his texts asking for his favorite table. We send love and prayers to family and friends mourning his loss with us. May he rest in peace.
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Jessica ortega lit a candle
Monday, September 7, 2026
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A great friend, boss and mentor. Your presence always drew light, laughter and love. Thank you for the endless laughs, happy tears and all the memories created along the way. We were a great team! You will be deeply missed by all who were lucky enough to know you. Forever a legend!
From Jess aka Leenda and Family
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Ruben Rivera planted a tree in memory of Raymond Benemerito
Sunday, September 6, 2026
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Our condolences to the Benemerito and O'Brien Family for your loss. Ray was admired and respected by those who knew him.
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Sheila lozada lit a candle
Sunday, September 6, 2026
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My sincerest condolences to the whole family that shines for him, perpetual light flies high, Mr. Raymond conformity to the whole family, thank you for being that great human being who went here on earth, thank you for always saying those good mornings for always bringing a laugh and for being aware of us as your employees fly high and here you will always be remembered.
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Sheila lozada lit a candle
Sunday, September 6, 2026
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Peace to your soul, conformity to your whole family, and may God have you in a beautiful place for the great human being who went here on earth, thank you for all the good days, for always being aware of us, you will miss your family, fly high, Mr. Raymond.
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Michael Gerazounis purchased flowers
Saturday, September 5, 2026
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Gonna miss you brother. Rest easy on calm waters. Mike Gerazounis and your friends at MG Engineering
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Michael Gerazounis planted a tree in memory of Raymond Benemerito
Saturday, September 5, 2026
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Gonna miss you brother. Rest easy on calm waters. Mike Gerazounis and your friends at MG Engineering
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Pete Alaniz lit a candle
Friday, September 4, 2026
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Please accept our sincerest condolences from the Alaniz family. Ray was a beloved member of the powerlifting community. He was a Captain of Team Titan and will be forever missed.
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Brad Gillingham lit a candle
Thursday, September 3, 2026
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God Bless Ray and the Benemerito Family. Ray was a fierce competitor, great teammate, always had your back, and was a friend to all that crossed his path. I travelled the World with Ray. Lots of great memories. Rest in Peace Ray. God Bless!
Brad Gillingham
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Larry Laubengeiger lit a candle
Thursday, September 3, 2026
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I knew Ray from many years ago when I made deliveries to the building he worked at in Jersey City. He always had a friendly smile, an "Good Morning" for everyone. I came to find some years later that he was married to Kathy who I got to know at Scissor Stix over many years.
Our deepest sympathies to Kathy, and the whole Benemerito family,
Larry, and Bernadette Laubengeiger
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Cory Amaro-Chalupt lit a candle
Thursday, September 3, 2026
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I had the honor of working with you, Ray, and more importantly, calling you a friend. Your free spirit and incredible energy drew so many people to you, and you will truly be missed.
My heart and prayers go out to the family and loved ones during this difficult time. Rest in peace, my friend. ❤️ Cory Amaro-Chalupt
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Susan Costello lit a candle
Wednesday, September 2, 2026
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Dear Kathy, Matt, Melanie and Mark. I am deeply saddened by this devastating news of Ray’s passing. I am keeping you all in my prayers and sending love and light in this very dark time. May he rest in peace.
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Anonymous planted a tree in memory of Raymond Benemerito
Wednesday, September 2, 2026
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John Hefferon posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 2, 2026
My deepest condolances to the Benemerito Family at this difficult time. Ray and I became friends over the last 12 years at SLG. The twinkle in his eye, be it from mischief or his inimitable happy go lucky persona, made everyone love him.
I will miss him dearly as will everyone that knew him.
Rest easy my friend.
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Brad Gillingham lit a candle
Wednesday, September 2, 2026
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I am shocked and saddened to hear about Ray. My deepest sympathy goes out to the Benemerito family. I travelled the World with Ray competing in Powerlifting. Ray was a fierce competitor and a great teammate. He was one of the all time greats. He had a Bigger than Life Personality and always brightened the room. So many great memories of hanging out with Ray and James.
God Bless the Benemerito Family
Rest in Peace My Friend
Brad Gillingham
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Adam Crecca lit a candle
Wednesday, September 2, 2026
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Ray and I managed Deutsche Vanks disaster recovery site in Piscataway, NJ after 911. He was a great mentor and friend. He will be missed by many. God bless Ray and his family
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Antonina Caruso planted a tree in memory of Raymond Benemerito
Wednesday, September 2, 2026
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Ray was so full of life. Always present and always showed up for his friends and colleagues. My sincere condolences to the Benemerito family.
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H. A. Olivares planted a tree in memory of Raymond Benemerito
Wednesday, September 2, 2026
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Thank you being real true gentleman. Heaven earned a new Angel. You would be missed and remembered with love and gratitude. R.I.P Ramon!
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Your friend from DC purchased flowers
Wednesday, September 2, 2026
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Condolences on the passing of a great man, colleague, and friend. Wishing all the best to the Benemerito family during this difficult time.
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Kimberly Hussey lit a candle
Wednesday, September 2, 2026
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Kathy, Matthew, Mel & Mark. We are so sorry for the loss of Ray. He always had a smile on his face when we saw him at the yacht club and arms out ready for a hug. We hope your loving memories help you through the tough days ahead. God Speed Ray. The Rosevear and Hussey Family.
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Manuel and Florinda Mangahas purchased flowers
Wednesday, September 2, 2026
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Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts.
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Manuel and Florinda Mangahas planted a tree in memory of Raymond Benemerito
Wednesday, September 2, 2026
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Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts.
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Jay Pesci posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 2, 2026
It seems like yesterday that I met Ray, although it was over 20 years ago. That's the impression I had of Ray - an exclamation point in life, - always present, disciplined, and professional. Never giving up. I'm so sorry for Ray's family's loss - condolences to Kathleen, Matthew, Melanie, and Mark.
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Brett Baron planted a tree in memory of Raymond Benemerito
Tuesday, September 1, 2026
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I grew up with Ray in the neighborhood. What a wonderful person. Sending our deepest condolences to his family. May his memory be a blessing.
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Rudi Pistoli & Green Mechanical Family purchased flowers
Tuesday, September 1, 2026
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To a great friend. Thank you for all the amazing memories and laughters.
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Angela Messina lit a candle
Tuesday, September 1, 2026
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The light from your candle will forever shine on your family. You will be missed greatly.
Angela Messina
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Anonymous purchased flowers
Tuesday, September 1, 2026
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Forever in my thoughts and thank you for all the great memories. Love you brother
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Anonymous planted a tree in memory of Raymond Benemerito
Tuesday, September 1, 2026
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Forever in my thoughts and thank you for all the great memories. Love you brother
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Athena (Nakos) Smith purchased flowers
Tuesday, September 1, 2026
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Thank you for being such a great mentor throughout my experience at SLG. You will be forever missed. Cheers Athena (Nakos) Smith,
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Athena (Nakos) Smith planted a tree in memory of Raymond Benemerito
Tuesday, September 1, 2026
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Thank you for being such a great mentor throughout my experience at SLG. You will be forever missed. Cheers Athena (Nakos) Smith,
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Nancy Gigante lit a candle
Tuesday, September 1, 2026
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To all of the Benemeritos and O’Briens,
Our deepest sympathies and heartfelt prayers are with all of you. This is an unbelievable loss for two beautiful families. May Ray rest in God’s peace and may you all know God’s comfort. All our love always, Nancy, Antonio, and Connie Gigante
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Larry & Joan Angelo purchased flowers
Tuesday, September 1, 2026
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My Brother, My Best Friend. You will be missed. Lifetime of love. Love you Larry & Joan Angelo and the Angelo Family
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Larry & Joan Angelo planted a tree in memory of Raymond Benemerito
Tuesday, September 1, 2026
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My Brother, My Best Friend. You will be missed. Lifetime of love. Love you Larry & Joan Angelo and the Angelo Family
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Larry and Camille Martin & family. purchased flowers
Tuesday, September 1, 2026
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Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Larry and Camille Martin & family. planted a tree in memory of Raymond Benemerito
Tuesday, September 1, 2026
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Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Love Nik, Rachel, and Jackson Khomyak purchased flowers
Tuesday, September 1, 2026
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Sent with deepest condolences, remembrance, and loving memories of Ray.
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Love Nik, Rachel, and Jackson Khomyak planted a tree in memory of Raymond Benemerito
Tuesday, September 1, 2026
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Sent with deepest condolences, remembrance, and loving memories of Ray.
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The Branch Family planted a tree in memory of Raymond Benemerito
Tuesday, September 1, 2026
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May your big smile and sense of humor be remembered whenever you are though of.
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The family of Raymond Aguilar Benemerito uploaded a photo
Tuesday, September 1, 2026
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Rene', Erica, Courtney & Grace Checchia planted a tree in memory of Raymond Benemerito
Tuesday, September 1, 2026
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May this tree grow as a beautiful reminder of the life you lived and the lives you touched. Sending prayers to the Benemerito family.
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Adrian Rrapo and the Dependable Team purchased flowers
Tuesday, September 1, 2026
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Your memory will never be forgotten.Thank you for all the joyfull times times we had together.Love you Baba!
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Adrian Rrapo and the Dependable Team planted a tree in memory of Raymond Benemerito
Tuesday, September 1, 2026
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Your memory will never be forgotten.Thank you for all the joyfull times times we had together.Love you Baba!
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Adrian Rrapo and the Dependable Team purchased flowers
Tuesday, September 1, 2026
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Your memory will never be forgotten.Thank you for all the joyfull times times we had together.Love you Baba!
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Adrian Rrapo and the Dependable Team planted a tree in memory of Raymond Benemerito
Tuesday, September 1, 2026
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Your memory will never be forgotten.Thank you for all the joyfull times times we had together.Love you Baba!
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With sympathy, Justin Leisenheimer & PWS Family purchased flowers
Tuesday, September 1, 2026
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Our deepest condolences to the Benemerito family. Wishing comfort, strength, & peace in the days ahead.
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Anonymous planted a tree in memory of Raymond Benemerito
Tuesday, September 1, 2026
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Ben Kimmel posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 1, 2026
My friend,
we worked together in a hard atmosphere with hard people and hard things to accept. And yet, despite the things we saw and despite the hard, long, or the toughest days and above all else, regardless of the people we worked for or the complaints they had, you always smiled and you always had something good to say.
I will remember you well, my friend
I remember how proud you were when you spoke to me about your son. I remember the content of his college thesis.
You did well for yourself and you did well for your family. Therefore, all a friend like me can ask is that you rest well.
Until the day comes when we see each other again, I can only say that "blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted."
My thoughts and prayers to you and your family...
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Camille Martin uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, September 1, 2026
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Ray thank you for all the funny times together. Thank you for your loyal friendship. We created some awesome memories!
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Carol KitchiN posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 1, 2026
Truly heartbroken at the loss of such an amazing man. He always greeted everyone with a smile and kind words and his passing will be felt by many. Sending love and prayers to your family.
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